Ways to let yourself grow ..

Stay special - you are unique and one of a kind. No one in this whole world ever has been or ever will be exactly like you. N your not finished, you are growing,you are in the process of becoming more and more special.Let urself grow. You have only one life. Time is short. Yesterday is over. Live today. Live like you never lived twice.
Write your own script - The script of your life is is still being written.You are the author. Write it the way you want it to be.Ofcourse you have challenges.If you had nothing to overcome how could you be great?
Bloom - Bloom where u are planted.Share your thoughts and dreams. Ask others what theirs are, so they can share with you.Smile as you listen.Joy is to others what sunshine is to plants.
Be beautiful - Recognize your own beauty.
Speak out - Express yourself.Let your actions speak for you.
Stay awake - Experiment with how much sleep you need and be sure to get that amount.But don't sleep your life away.Take naps if you need to otherwise don't. Constructive wakefulness beats worrying about insomnia and pill popping.
Be friendly - Whether or not you have friends depends on you.
Develop your talents - It's never too late to do those special things you've always wanted to do. Just go ahead and do them.
Be independent - Live your own life.Be responsible for yourself.Use your intelligence to find out the things you know and do what your better self tells you to do. Don't manipulate anyone and don't let anyone manipulate you.
Learn to love - Make it central in your life. Be caring.A big hug speaks a language all its own.
Let urself be happy - Be happy now. Embrace happiness whenever it comes.Be open to small thrills that life provides.Don't pan for the gold all the time. That gets tiresome. Just enjoy the visible nuggets. (thanks jesica, remember u telling me this too, thats how I'm living my life now)
Don't forget to remember - Take responsibility for your memory.As life speeds by make the good things the permanent fixtures in your memory.Above all, dont allow any reruns of your personal mistakes and tragedies.Solve anything that needs solving and then let it rest.
Relax - You can't and you should not work all the time. You need to relax. Enjoy yourself in the deepest sense and be active.
Laugh - Laugh every single day.
Sing - You'll never know how much music you have in ur heart until u sing out for all the world to hear.
Forgive and try to forget - By forgiving you can get back your own peace of heart.
Be open - Say what you mean and mean what you say.
Welcome tomorrow - go out to meet tomorrow.
Stay afloat - There will be times in your life when it will be hard to hang on. There will be tough times and you may be afraid. However stay afloat. Things will get better because you are the type of person who will help them to get better..
Don't underestimate yourself - Be gad you are you. You are really something !
Create opportunities - As u go through life, you will be offered many opportunities.But create your own too.Look at life and situate urself.There are many places just made for you.You create ur own opp or u don't. Its up2 u. Everyone starts from scratch.
Dance - a proof that you are trulyy alive.
Listen with ur eyes and ears - Your attention indicates that the person speaking is imp to u and that u want 2 hear what is being said.There is no substitute for this kind of attention.
Admit your mistake - Its good to know that u are human and sometimes wrong too.
Be faithful - to the people around you.
Value ur time - Is it ever true for u 2 say u didn't have time 4 something ? isn't time exactly what u do have?
Stay well - Your health depends alot on you.
Edit your life - Think before you act.
Treasure your achievements - Your life is a pattern. Look back in ur life and look at the decisions u have made that add a new dimension to ur life.But if ,as u look at the past, it seems that everything has gone wrong and u have little to show for even ur best efforts, take courage just the same.Begin now. From that dark background a bright pattern will emerge.It is never too late.
Appreciate yourself - you really are a gift to urself.

No matter what ...

No matter how farther you look,
when the road shows no directions.

No matter how long you wait,
when it's just you and the ticking clock.

No matter what distance you travel,
when it seems to be the beginning.

No matter how strong you are,
when the voices inside convinces you.

No matter how serene you pretend,
When there is constant conflict within.

No matter how mindful you are,
when everything is falling apart.

Let the time roll on, because..

No matter how long the night is,
The day is sure to come..

Like the river flows ...

As I live my life one day at a time,
I learn to accept all that comes my way.
It may not be what I want that day;
But I go with the flow, come what May.

Days, weeks and months pass by,
N I’ve learnt to accept how things come by;
Life’s not easy or wasn’t meant to be,
But accepting the challenges that come my path
And managing it the best way I can
Will help me sail through life you see.

My life was like this Ocean
Where I sailed on just like the Ship.
But I know now that somehow somewhere
I have just got to get a grip.

I know not where this journey will lead me;
Coz my life aint like the Ship anymore,
But I’ll flow on like the river
Let the flowing water carry me
And see what life has in store for me.

It’s sure going to be a challenge
With all its ups and downs,
But if so be it, I’ll meet it.
And as I live on
Like the river I’ll flow on,
Leaving my yesterdays behind
Welcoming my tomorrows with a smile.
A stronger person is who I’ll be
After all it’s I who holds the key to me.